Long Distance relationship is a form of relationship. Relationship which is the basic necessity of humans, needs a lot of time, dedication, patience and understanding . And when it is a Long Distance Relationship, where two people are physically away from each other, it is difficult even to maintain it. There will be so many questions hovering in the thought of the couples in a Long Distance Relationship.
Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation
With the gap of time and distance, the love grow deeper. Like that, the distance increases the love and caring between the couples in Long Distance Relationship. Couples in Long Distance Relationship feels the crave to hold each other’s hand, walk on shore side, looking into each other’s eyes, and many more romantic things that is not so great in normal relationship. We love to feel even very small emotions also. But like any other relationship, Long Distance Relationship is also built on mutual trust, loyalty, understanding, patience and many more emotions. Sometimes this relationship will reinstate the love across distances and sometimes it completely leave the people heart broken, who further cannot believe on love and relationship. To really enjoy the journey of Long Distance Relationship there are some tips to follow.
Types of Long Distance Relationship
The first type of Long Distance Relationship are that people who already know each other. However, due to some reasons like education or job, they have to move away from each other. But still, they are in a relationship.
The other one comprises of a big number of teenagers to adults who never seen each other. However, due to the virtue of social media, they started with becoming friends to get into the relationship.
Both the types of Long Distance Relationship are in different age groups of different level of understanding. However, for a successful relationship there are some basic rules, which is also present in Long Distance Relationship but in different ways.
1. First Reason of Disturbance
Like in every relationship, Long Distance Relationship too have a golden period, like always talking and understanding each other without any type of explanation.
But slowly due to distance, misunderstanding like bugs will also arises in this relationship. This misunderstanding leads to Silence Phase, which eventually moves to Ignoring each other. And here starts the spoiling of a good relationship. Sometimes silence kills the relationship. So, please no shut-ups.
2. The Nail of Communication Gap
Communication gap is like a NAIL in the plank of relationship, that increases the gap in a relationship and ultimately breaks it apart. Remember always, the relation has started with the love, which was started initially with the communication only. Once there is a communication gap between the couples, it increases the misunderstandings. It doesn’t give the chance for other person to clarify him or herself. This communication always keeps the heart connected so, once this gap has come, the connection also lost. If you talk or allow to talk the other person then the relation will become good, but if you close the door of communication then even a good relationship also spoils.
3. Surprise… the cracker of Relationship
Surprise element of Long Distance Relationship. Surprise is like a cracker of Diwali which suddenly gives a immense amount of joy that makes even the saddest heart to dance in tune of love. If it is possible to meet, then it is necessary to meet twice a month, because a emotional bonding increases with physical touch. And when it is a surprise visit then it will be like icing on cake.
But if meeting is not possible, then do something like writing a note for them, email, make a video of ” How you feel about that person, how much important they are for your life”.
But always remember this should happen from both sides. Because in a relationship both are equal and equally responsible for managing the relationship.
4. Shopping Spree… Feeling Free
It sounds very silly , but in a healthy relationship it matters a lot. When we speak about our likes and dislikes over the phone. Then the other person is not able to feel that much. But when we show the concern about the likes and dislikes of our partner through shopping and outing. Then even the most shy fellow in the relationship can also be able to express his or her feeling freely.
5. Best Friend or BFF Entry
Majority of the time the opposite gender friend becomes a villain in a relationship. But it is very important for friends to have a place in life. Never put any restrictions on any such things. Because barriers are needed where there is doubt, which is the initiator of deterioration of the relationship. That’s why , we should give importance and time to each relationship according to their importance.
6. Loyalty is the last breath of Relationship
Loyalty matters a lot in every relationship. The same is with a Long Distance Relationship. Sometimes there will be some kind of argument or quarrel between the couples. That leads to silence or avoiding each other. This is the time when the loyalty will be that last breath on which the life of your relationship depends. This breath of loyalty either gives a new life to your relationship or ends it. Always be loyal to your relationship. Because once you cheat your partner, maybe you will not get affected much. But your partner will lose his or her faith over the relationship and love.
7. Healthy Discussion improves the health of the relationship
Sometimes you feel, maybe your partner is cheating on you. Then you should put your doubts in front of your partner like a healthy discussion. You should talk to each other comfortably on your feelings which are very important. Because hiding your feelings from each other and thinking that the other one will understand it. This leads to lots of disappointment and frustration. So, for keeping the relationship healthy better to have a healthy discussion.
8. When both the partners are busy
Stay busy, because if one is busy in an office and the other one is free. Then, he or she will insist to talk always, or to have video call or chatting etc. Actually sometimes when you are having a lot of office and work pressure, then you will feel irritated. And this leads to quarrel and unnecessary misunderstandings and distance in relationship.
That’s why if both are busy in some activities like study, office, sports or anything, then both of them will find some quality time for each other. In this case both will respect each other’s time also.
9. Quality time for each other
If both of you remain busy, then you can fix some dedicated time to spend some quality time. This time will only be yours, no disturbance and no pressure. Even a quality time of few minutes is enough to make the bond stronger than hours of talking with some pressure.
The dedicated time will make you feel that ” Yes, this time is ours” and that time will make both of you feel special.
10. Final tip to have the best relationship
Give time to each other. Listen to each other. Understand each other. Surprise each other. Respect each other’s talk. Respect each other’s work. And finally be loyal and open to each other.
Then you can be assured that you are in the best relationship in the world….. The Long Distance Relationship
#StaySafe # Stayloved
