Why do Children learn better with their parents? When babies are born, they don’t know anything except cry. If the baby feels hungry, or sleepy, or even they want something, or if more people come into the house, they still cry. But when they grow up gradually everything starts changing. Whether it is walking, talking, eating, studying, thinking, or choosing the path of life. Whatever it may be.
Everything child starts learning from their parents. The most important thing in every child’s life is their parents. The first teacher of a child is their parents. They try to teach the child something at every step. Whether it is to teach them to walk by holding a hand in childhood. Or to teach them about the world after growing up. Through a beautiful story, we will be able to understand this thing better.
Children are reflection of their parents
In a city, there lives a small family, with parents and their daughter. That parents were very calm and very good-natured. Always they treat well all the people and were very good with their neighbors. Everybody knows them. Their daughter was also very sweet and calm. Because she has seen her parents living like this since childhood. Her parents never fight among themselves nor with anyone else. They were of a very helpful nature.
That girl has seen since childhood that if someone needs some help, then her parents always help them. While going on the road, if a beggar begs, then her father never talks rudely to them. He always helps them in some way. If there is a quarrel somewhere, then her parents do not participate in enjoying it or making negative comments. They always try to end the quarrel.
The girl has been seeing all these things since childhood. Her parents always told her that it is very important to keep herself happy. But along with that, it is also very important to take care of the happiness of others.
A little work of the Girl made the waiter cry with joy– The children learns better with their parents
One day that girl felt very much like eating ice cream. But at that time her father had gone out of town for some important work. And her mother went to her friend’s house. So that girl thought that there is a restaurant near the house. She will go there and come home soon after eating ice cream.
Then she took money out of her piggy bank and went to a restaurant to eat ice cream. When the girl reached the restaurant, a waiter came and asked What do you want to eat? The girl wants to have ice cream.
The waiter brought the menu card to the girl and asks her to place her order. Then the girl showed the photo of big ice cream on that menu card. She said to the waiter that uncle this ice cream looks very tasty. How much is the cost of this ice cream? The waiter replied the price of this ice cream is Rs 25.
Then the girl showed the photo of small ice cream and asked uncle how much is the cost of this ice cream? The waiter said this ice cream is 20rs. Then the girl said uncle brings me this 20rs ice cream. The waiter brought this ice cream and gave it to the girl. She was happily eating ice cream. After some time when the waiter came to take money from the girl, he saw something that he cried over there.
It’s a very big achievement for a parent The children learns better with their parents
The waiter was surprised to see that with Rs 20, there was Rs 5 as a tip on the table. He got emotional and started crying. When the girl reached home, her mother came back from her friend’s house. She asked her where she went? The girl said that she wants to eat ice cream and went to the nearby restaurant. Then she told her that she ate ice cream worth 20rs and gave 5rs to the waiter uncle.
Then her mother asked her why did you give 5rs to that uncle? The girl replied that when we(father, mother, daughter) go out of the restaurant to eat food. The father always pays the bill. Along with it, he gives some extra money to the uncle who has served the food. Because we feel very happy when we hang out or eat outside. Similarly, when the father gives some extra money to that uncle, that uncle also becomes very happy.
She told to her mother that my father always says that giving a little money to anyone will not reduce our money. But getting that little extra money will double the happiness of that person. We should take care of our happiness of ourselfs and it’s important. but it’s also very important to take care of the happiness of others.
Again she told her mother that I had only 25rs. If I had eaten ice cream for 25rs, then I could not have given any money to that uncle. That’s why I ate 20rs Icecream and gave 5rs to that uncle. After hearing all this, her mother realized that her little daughter doesn’t know the meaning of the tips. But she knows very well that by doing such work, others get a lot of happiness. Then the mother embraced her daughter and felt very proud of her upbringing.
We get to learn something all the time
In our life from childhood to old age, we get to learn something all the time. Children learn a lot from school, college, teachers, books, neighbors, friends, mobile, tv, etc. But what children learn from their parents by watching them or seeing them is the most unique. That thing supports children from every step of their life. And teaches them to walk on the right path in life.
If a child do some good thing then we parents always feel proud of them. But we parents should be such that children seeing us always feel proud to have parents like us. In today’s time parents are so busy with their work, business, career, lifestyle, money, etc. That’s why they don’t have time to give their child.
The parents, who have provided every facility to their children. Such parents are there for the children but are not with the children. Remember a child need time not things. Children will learn a lot even without parents. But the children who can learn with their parents will get emotionally very strong and also powerful in mind as well as by heart. Communication is the bridge between the parents and their children which will get strengthened by the right communication. Also being a parent we should be emotionally connected to our children. That’s why if we as parents want to make our future better, then, first of all, we should pay attention to our children. Spend time with our children. Then our present and future will be full of happiness.
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