Wise people know where and how to talk. There’s a time to say everything. But there are many people in the world who don’t know which thing would be right to do where. Talking is the gift of God through which we can convey our feelings to others. But if the way of talking goes wrong people misunderstood us.
It happens very often to many people that sometimes they speak the truth, speak the right. But at that time in that situation, it seems annoying or wrong and people misunderstood them as wrong or bad. But the person who is intelligent speaks the same thing in such a way that others neither feel it wrong nor feel bad. Because they speak based on the time and situation before speaking. if God has given you beautiful eyes, then you will find the world beautiful. But if a person knows how to talk well then the whole world will love them. Through a beautiful story, we will understand how important is talking is in our life.
Story about two brothers– Wise people know where and how to talk
There was a jewelry shop that was owned by two brothers. Big brother used to sit at the cash counter. And the younger brother used to show the jewelry to the customers who came to the shop. His elder brother used to quarrel with him over every small matter. But he never says anything to his elder brother, never quarrels with him. He knew that his brother unnecessarily fights him. But still, he used to think that if he says something then the fight will only elevate.
The younger one always pacifies himself by thinking that if my brother says something, then let him speak, there is no problem. Understanding the situation, he was always silent. His elder brother always does the same thing. He says anything to anyone and doesn’t even think once before speaking. That’s why his friends and relatives don’t talk to him so much. Sometimes he used to speak the right thing. But he speaks in such a situation and at such a place where even his right words were considered wrong by the people. That’s why people don’t like him. That’s why we should always think before talking. Wise people know where and how to talk. They know that effective communication is better than talking.
The elder brother died
The younger brother was always careful in his talk. He talks after observing the place and situation. And don’t fight with anyone unnecessarily. That’s why everyone liked him so much. One day his elder brother died in an accident. He had a wife and a 25-year-old son. A few days after his death, his wife and son had got the money problems. Then one day his wife gave her son a gold necklace and send him to their shop.
She said to her son that you take this gold necklace and give it to the uncle. And tell him that he can sell this necklace and give the money. His son took that necklace and went to the jewelry shop.
He said to his uncle that my mom has given him this gold necklace and told him to sell it. And give me the money for that. Because right now there is a lot of money problem in our house. Uncle saw the gold necklace and gave it back to his nephew without selling it. And gave some money to his nephew.
The boy work in the Gold shop
The uncle told his nephew that you do one thing, keep this necklace with you. And from tomorrow come to the shop, work here and you can gradually learn the work also. Then the boy took that necklace and went home. From the next day, he started coming to that shop and started working. Just like that, a few months passed. That boy had learned a lot of work in that gold shop with the help of his uncle in these few months.
While working in that shop he had learned a lot about gold quality and purity. Then one day his uncle told his nephew that the gold necklace you had brought a few months ago for sale, that necklace you bring tomorrow. Because the design of the gold necklace is very beautiful. And I want to make another necklace of the same design. That’s why tomorrow you bring that necklace.
The right thing sometimes feels wrong
Then the boy went to his house. And the next morning when he was getting ready and coming for the shop, he remembered that his uncle had told him to bring that gold necklace. Then he opened the cupboard and took the necklace. As soon as the boy saw that necklace, he came to know that necklace is not of gold but it is fake, it is imitation jewelry. And seeing this the boy was shocked and went and told his uncle all these things.
After listening to him, his uncle told him that he came to know about this thing today. But I was already knowing about this on that day itself when you came to the shop with that necklace and were asking to sell it. But I don’t tell you the truth at that time. Because I knew that if I told you the truth at that time, you and your mom would have misunderstood me. You both think that I don’t want to help you because your father always used to fight with me. And I am taking revenge on you. That’s why wise people know where and how to talk.
Sometimes the truth seems like a big lie
That time both time and situation were not right to speak the truth. Again he told his nephew that’s why I didn’t tell you anything about that necklace at that time. I told you to keep the necklace. And also called you to work in this shop too. Because if you work in a gold shop, then very soon you can easily know the gold.
Then his nephew thanked his uncle a lot and said you taught me a very big lesson today which will be useful for the rest of my life.
We should think once before speaking– Wise people know where and how to talk
Telling the truth is a good thing and a big deal. Not everyone can tell the truth. People are afraid, to tell the truth. But we should think once before speaking the truth. Whether you speak the truth, you speak for the good of someone, you speak a very nice thing or you scold someone for the good for someone, whatever you say, but the time and circumstance should be appropriate for speaking everything.
Not everything looks good all the time. Sometimes our true words hurt someone else and they started to misunderstand us. Sometimes we scold someone for their better future. But before you speak something, you must think that what is that person’s mental state at that time. That person is able to understand our words or not.
The words never come back
The arrows that come out of the bow and the words what we say never come back. It happens very often with many people that we go out somewhere or go to parties, sometimes we say such things in a flew or show off. And then after coming back home, we repent that we should not have spoken like this. Because sometimes these little things make a big impact in our real life.
Our words are the same as our food. After cooking the better way we serve food and it looks so beautiful(yummy) to look at and the more we feel hungry. And we think that food must have been very tasty because it looks so tasty and yummy. But the same food we didn’t serve in a good way, then we will not feel like eating delicious food also. But it will feel like normal food.
Similarly, when we talk we serve our words to others. When we will serve our words others in a beautiful and good way and in better circumstances. It means the other will feel good after listening to us. Then the other will consider us as a good person and will like us. So that’s why whatever we say, always before speaking once you thought. Remember the way we talk reveals our personality.
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